It Is Much More Fun To Plan Your Own Wedding
Wednesday, May 5th, 2010Finally your finance has asked you to marry him and you said yes of course! Well done. Now the fun of planning your own wedding begins. It can be a nightmare at times but it can also be a time where you learn how to compromise. This day is so special as it is filled with happiness, romance, love and tranquility. To start, you need to always have pen and paper handy, even when you are waxing your legs, make notes and get ideas from people.
It is true what they say; when a woman plans a wedding she is actually planning a small army to follow her instructions for a favorable outcome. First the venue has to be arranged which takes a long time as there are budget venues and not so budget venues, if you understand what I mean. Remember the church and hall has to be secured before and the invitations can go out.
To make sure your invitations go out in time, you need to agree on a layout, theme and color a few months before the actual date. A wedding invitation is very important, as this is the first glimpse of your wedding that a guest will have. Make is look shoddy and cheap and that is what will stick in their minds. So it is wise to choose a good quality invitation which looks elegant and stylish.
Start planning your invitation cards. Will they be long or short, rectangle or square? What theme do have in mind? Your invitations are the most important part of the wedding because they will immediately let your guest know what type of wedding you are planning. Try not to make your wedding invitations look inexpensive as the negative will always stick in a person’s mind first. Choose a really elegant or stylish looking invitation.
Your dress is of course the most important item of clothing you will have on that day. Here you need to pay attention to the detail of your dress. Today the notion of romance and nostalgia are popular. A lace wedding dress will be set the tone of the wedding as it will compliment your body’s form and will give you a look of pure sophistication coupled with an air of mystery.
Your bridesmaids are also important as their dresses will reflect on you instantly. It is not necessary for them to have a purple dress if your color scheme for the decor should be purple and white. Rather choose an understated color like egg shell white, beige or cream. These colors will blend in with yours beautifully and the purple wont stick out like a sore thumb.
Thank them by presenting each with jewelry pendants to wear with their lace dresses. They will be so surprised by your gesture of friendship. It will be really appreciated and it is a way to have your special memory of your wedding day live on in someone else’s memories as well.